Tuesday, November 3, 2026

Classic Holiday Decor


Today, we are talking about Christmas decor. With all the holiday content I have been working on, this week feels like Santa's workshop over here! 

I wanted to share some of the holiday decor I put up in our home. There are lots of photos, so it may seem like a lot, but I truly don't do much- just enough to be festive and add warmth and magic. I don't like that overly cluttered feel that can happen with Christmas decor, so I try to reel myself in even when I see cute things. I also don't like spending a fortune on this kind of thing, so I keep it to a minimum because storing it all is a real pain!

My Christmas decor ethos is to buy it once and never replace it. One of the things I love about holidays is tradition. I want to use the same angel on top of the tree, the same tree skirt, the same dinner plates, etc., forever. It creates a continuity over years and decades and, in my opinion, is a part of the charm and warmth of the season. 

I think slowly collecting is fun. I love that I know that I bought our tree skirt when we first moved into our home and were engaged and got our first tree together. In a way, these things mark time. 

I don't need much this year. One thing I don't have is a nativity. I hope to get one at some point, but haven't found exactly what I'm looking for yet. It's one of those 'I'll know it when I see it' kind of things. This is my dream nativity. There is a heavy emphasis on the word 'dream' as that is where it will only ever happen, ha! 

I love this blue and white one, but I feel like this one looks much more like the one my parents have and what we grew up with. My mom actually made her nativity in her 20s in a ceramic class!

I also have my eye on these adorable 3.5' Nutcrackers. 

Our tree skirt is from L.L. Bean, but they no longer make it. I think this tree skirt is a great alternative! 


The monogrammed sash is meant to be a bow for a newborn swaddle, but it's the perfect length and size for a wreath and less costly than many wreath sashes out there. I don't think the Etsy shop carries the exact plaid any longer, but they have some cute options. 


Spode Christmas is one of my favorite things. It signifies the holiday season for me, and I have loved collecting the pieces over the years. If you are starting off, go for some mugs, some dinner plates, and the champagne flutes! 




Our family friends gifted us dinner plates, mugs, and salad plates from the 'Twas collection for our wedding, which is so pretty and whimsical. I think of them each year as I pull out the pieces!





This book is so special. In a primarily digital world, I love this tangible memory book. I give this as a housewarming and wedding gift. It's like a scrapbook with a set of pages per holiday season. You can fill up to 25 years in this one book. I love filling ours in each year. 





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Monday, November 2, 2026

Gift Guide 2026: Host and Hostess

Discover the best host and hostess gifts, from thoughtful little luxuries to elegant entertaining essentials. Perfect for holiday parties, dinners, and more.

Happy first day of gift guides! I’m getting most of this year’s guides up before the Cyber Week deals begin around November 20-ish. A wordier intro to today's gift guide, but in future guides, we will get straight to the point, I promise!! 

Here’s the plan: today kicks off with the Host + Hostess Gift Guide. There will be 11 total gift guides, and I'll have 7 of them live before Cyber Week. I'm bringing back Wednesday posts just for November so I can fit it all in! I’ll still be sharing my usual Thursday Lately and Friday Weekend Wish List posts.
 
I always like to start with the host and hostess gifts. Whether you're attending Thanksgiving, a holiday party, spending a weekend at someone's home, or gathering for a dinner, a thoughtful gift is always a gracious gesture. I also keep a few of these items on hand as they make generous neighbor gifts or small tokens of thanks (for example, when someone helps out with Henry).

I actually have a designated gift shelf where I store things like this, so I’m never scrambling for last-minute presents. It makes the holiday season and the rest of the year feel more organized and stress-free. I learned this tip from my mom and have been doing it my entire adult life. It's saved me many a time! 

I put a lot of thought and care into each guide and am very selective about what I include. These gift guides are one of my favorite things to create all year, and I spend months leading up to today editing and perfecting these lists. I am not just tossing random things on these guides. While there are many great items out there, I keep in mind that these are gifts, and some great items can be a little odd to give, such as a bra, underwear, or foundation, which are best given when you really know someone personally. 

I don’t accept sponsorships for gift guides on my website, so when you shop through my links, it truly means more than you know. If you make a purchase, I may earn a small commission (at no extra cost to you), and your support helps me keep creating these guides each year. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for trusting me with your holiday gifting! 

I'll be sharing my gift guides on my ShopMy page, in case you'd like to refer back to them there. I've also added 'shelves,' which are essentially categorized folders where I save products that I find throughout the week. For example, I recently created a jewelry folder, a cozy lounge folder, a party/cocktail/black tie folder, and more!

I included a lot in today's guide. I personally think of host/hostess gifts under $50, so I included mostly under-$50 items, but I also included a few higher-priced gifts, since I tend to gift something a bit more substantial when I am a house guest versus a dinner party guest. 

Some items of note...

- One of the easiest gifts to grab, and thankfully under $30 (though, depending on what brands you buy), is this Sourdough Bread + French Butter + Jam + Holiday Spreaders Set. Who doesn't love waking up the next day to all of the fixings for a delicious piece of toast?! The butter is some of the best I've ever had. You can find it at Whole Foods. Bonne Maman is my go-to for jams, and my personal favorite is the four fruits. I always snag a loaf of sourdough at Whole Foods, but it's even more special if you bake your own! 

- One of my girlfriends is an incredible baker, and she loves to share her baked goods with so many. These 'from the kitchen' Custom Gift Tags were so fun to give to her a few Christmases ago! 

- The Coffee Table Book is merely a placeholder to inspire. I am a big believer that you can never have too many coffee table books. I was once really stumped on what to get someone I didn't know very well. I knew they loved motorcycles, though, and wouldn't you know it, I found a beautiful Harley-Davidson motorcycle coffee table book! I also love gifting a newlywed couple a coffee table book of their honeymoon, and I write a note inside! 

- The Balsamic Vinegar that's worth every penny and then some. We discovered this in Rome a few years ago and have been loyal fans ever since. When I was in Florence in September, I snagged some, but luckily, you don't have to go to Italy to get it. I am sharing the white label, which is one of their least costly options. For balsamic, this brand is pricey, but it's just soooo much better than anything else. If you want to spend a little more, the red label is incredible (called 3 gold medals), and it is what I typically buy for our house. Though the white label is fantastic, too. I picked up the aged version in Florence, which is very expensive, but in Italy, it's much less, and the aged version is so good, but not something I'd use daily. 
Some items of note...

- I love gummy candy, and as far as candy goes, this Candy Mix Gift Box is a bit of a splurge, but for under $20, you can make someone who loves gummy candy really happy, because this really is the best!

- These Nutcracker Taper Candles are under $20! I've seen them in person, and they are SO cute. If you want to take it a step further, a pair of candlestick holders would be the perfect add-on! 

- We stayed at the Inn at Perry Cabin a few years ago for Valentine's Day, and on every table in their dining room were these fabulous porcelain Votive Holders. It turns out they come in so many beautiful patterns. I included a beautiful lattice design, but they have everything from sailboats to dogs, and more. 

- I love to give the Family Christmas Book as a wedding gift, housewarming gift, or baby shower gift. It's unique and something you might not buy for yourself. The book gives you two pages to write notes about your holiday and then paste in a photo or two. I put in our holiday card, too. We have done this for 7 years in our own book, and looking back is so fun and special. 

- I think this Scented Tassel is such a fun concept to place in a powder bathroom or closet. You could tie it onto a bottle of wine or olive oil, too. I think this Frame Ornament is adorable and another great one to place on a bottle. 

Discover the best host and hostess gifts, from thoughtful little luxuries to elegant entertaining essentials. Perfect for holiday parties, dinners, and more.
Some items of note...

- I love tea and love to try different teas and brands. This Tea Gift Set is from one of my favorite tea brands, Harney and Sons and has so many of my favorites! 

- Back in March, I popped into the cutest little shop in Naples, and there was a dog waste bag holder that was called a 'Barkin'. It looks like a designer bag we know and love. I bought it immediately, and that is what is hanging on Henry's leash. I can't find the exact one that I bought, but this Dog Waste Bag Holder is adorable. It's a cheeky little gift for the dog + fashion lover. 

- I ordered this Sponge, after my sister and cousin have been raving about it. I'm a big Scrub Daddy loyalist, but they both swear up and down that this is the best sponge!! I always think a sponge is a silly little gift, and adding a little tray, like this Blue and White Catchall, makes it giftable. If I host many people and have a lot of cleanup, I usually replace my sponge the next day, so I think it's useful, thoughtful, and, best of all, very inexpensive. You can even do a sponge with a mini bottle of dish soap, wrap it in cellophane, tie it with a big bow and pretty gift tag, and you have yourself an under-$10 gift. Half the time, it's all about presentation! 

- These Martini Olives are the best to ever exist. They are so meaty and firm, and the brine is so salty and flavorful. My girlfriend turned me onto these, and I've never looked back. A very inexpensive little gift to give on its own- this is perfect for someone who loves a martini, and maybe you visit their home often and just want to give them a little something. But add in some cute Cocktail Picks and/or a bottle of vodka or gin, and it's a more substantial gift. 

- My sister and I love these soap bricks; I particularly think this Fig Soap Brick is the best one. I usually don't like bar soap, but this is so luxurious. It doesn't come with anything to lay it on in the shower, and you don't have to have something, but I checked the dimensions of the soap brick, and this little  Lucite Tray should fit the soap perfectly and keep the shower tidier  

- These Tassels  are a fun little thing to dress up a bottle of wine, olive oil, or gift! You can add them to furniture pulls, lamp switches, or even a handbag. 


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Friday, October 30, 2026

Weekend Wish List

Some items of note... 

- This Faux Fur Scarf just climbed its way to the tippy top of my wish list. My code for 20% off is SYD20. It's brilliant. The faux fur portion is hollowed out so you can slip any silk scarf through! It comes with a scarf, but I love that you can swap it out. I love their faux fur- the quality is always top-notch. 

- These Gold Drop Earrings are inexpensive and a great pair to have on hand because they'd work with every holiday outfit and even dress up a simple sweater and jeans. They're under $50! 

- The Sephora sale opens today for Rouge members. This Hair Cream Wand is my #1 recommendation! It tames my flyaways, and you can't tell there is any product in my hair. Plus, it's small enough to stash in most handbags. 

- I am on the hunt for a daytime black bag that is small with a crossbody strap, but that could also be used in the evenings with more casual outfits. I think this Black Bucket Bag is a contender.

-  This Coaster Set and Ornament look like fine Italian china! Either would make such a nice gift. 

Dog Bed (use code SYDNEY10)// Black Dress// Beaded Bag

Some items of note... 

- I did not know that this brand made Dog Beds, but they are so cute and washable! My code is SYDNEY10.

- This Beaded Bag is making me think Valentino, and thankfully the price tag is much better on the wallet. 

- This is such a random find, but a few years ago, my mom and I got the prettiest, dainty rice bead bracelets from a jeweler in Charleston. The jeweler mostly sold silver items, so the rice beads were silver, but the chain was silver coated in gold. It was so pretty and dainty. I still have it, but the gold has worn off, so it's just silver now. I do like silver, but I prefer yellow gold. This summer, when we were in Charleston, I went back to the jewelry shop to ask if they make it or could make it in yellow gold, but they said no. I looked online to find something similar, but I haven't been able to find the right scale or look. Just this week, I stumbled upon this Dainty Gold Bracelet, and it is pretty darn close to exactly what I have been looking for. The only difference is that the beads on my bracelet from Charleston are engraved so that they have some texture, and these don't. I do love the texture, so I'll sit on this for a bit, but I think this is the best I've found! 

- I couldn't fit this cardigan into the WWL collages, so I'm just sharing it here as an add-on because I love it! 

- My husband already loves Sauvage, but this is the new one, 'Elixir ' (it's Men's Cologne, while I love wearing unisex, even men's scents; this one is not something I'd personally wear). It smells so good, and he prefers it over Sauvage. It has a warm, masculine, woody scent. It has many notes and is just overall pleasant but rich. 

- I know many of you ordered the Hollister underwear when I posted about it many times over the years. I was so disappointed that they stopped carrying it, but isn't that how it always goes?! I've ordered so many different pairs from different brands, and I still haven't found an exact duplicate. I do like these; they are as close as can be, but not exact. I want to try these Underwear because they're 40% off right now, making it a reasonable price. 


For your weekend reading, here are blog posts you may have missed from this week:




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Thursday, October 29, 2026

Lately




I truly cannot get over the leaves this year. Spectacular!!!! 

Two recent skincare empties: I liked the serum on the left (my code SUMMERWIND may work on this), but it didn't wow me, especially considering the price. I feel confused about it becuase it gets such rave reviews. The Serum on the right is incredible and will be on sale at Sephora! I got my mom hooked on this, too, and it's under $100. 

Ready for the trick or treaters! 

Hope you are all having a great week. It's been a pretty typical week around here, with a side of gorgeous fall weather. Sharing some photos of the beautiful leaves above!! 

This past weekend was fun as we hosted my mom and cousin's birthday dinner. My aunt made chocolate pie and pumpkin pie for the occasion. Both were delicious. We got to meet their sweet new pup who was adorable! I love him already. We also picked names for Christmas. In our extended family (on my side with aunts, uncles, cousins, spouses, etc.), we do a grab bag for Christmas gifts, so everyone is in charge of one person instead of getting individual gifts. It's not a secret, either. I have my cousin, which I'm excited about because she is easy to shop for! 

I feel like I'm in a bit of mourning since 3 days are left in my favorite month of the year, and this weekend is when we turn back the clocks! October is the best, and we have had a spectacular month here in Pittsburgh. The leaves have been prettier than I can ever remember, and the weather has been mild, brilliantly sunny, and so enjoyable. I have just been soaking it all up and hoping it'll carry me through the winter. I don't want to jinx it, but it's looking like we may have amazing weather for Halloween! Fingers crossed! Our neighborhood is fun for the holiday, and I am all set to hand out candy with my husband! 

Otherwise, I hope to have a low-key weekend and get some work done. I'm working hard behind the scenes on holiday content, gift guides, and more. I *think* I'm going to add back in Wednesday posts for November so I can get most of my gift guides live before Cyber Week starts. 

Starting Monday, I will have my first gift guide up. It will be host/hostess focused. I don't take brand sponsorships for my gift guides. From a business perspective, it's likely a poor decision, but personally, I want complete and total creative control. I spend months curating these lists and put a lot of thought into everything I include! Gift Guides are one of my favorite things to create. So if you like something on my gift guide, it would mean so much to me if you click through my links so I can earn a commission (at no cost to you) if you make a purchase! I am truly so grateful for your support!!

Jenn launched a new collection with STS, and they sent me this gorgeous skirt from the launch. It's *stunning*. Truly looks like something vintage. The fabric is cream jacquard leopard print. I love the texture. Then, you have gorgeous velvet bows down the front and a velvet bow around the waist. I'm wearing a small. It fits perfectly in my bum/hips but is a touch big in the waist... an easy nip that my tailor can fix quickly and inexpensively!


Top (use code SYD20)// Belt// Jeans// Boots

Did a sponsored post on IG stories with Effy jewelry, and this ring was part of the sponsorship. Isn't it so pretty? I'm not a big ring gal, but this is perfectly dainty- the kind of thing you can wear daily, with a nice, low profile! As of writing this, it's 25% off! This was my first foray into Effy jewelry, and they have so many pretty things. Many of you always ask about my signet ring that I wear daily. It's one of my favorite things ever. I got it over 10 years ago, when J.Crew had a small fine jewelry selection and then had a jeweler in Pittsburgh hand-engrave it (Urbanowicz if you are local). I can't speak to the quality of any other signet rings, obviously, but I think this one looks nearly identical, and I think this one could potentially be a really good deal during Cyber Week, as historically, they have always had a good sale!

Cutest little tote! Great quality, under $40.


Sweatshirt on sale for $35// Puffer Vest
 
Wearing: Holiday dressy pieces are just starting to launch from so many brands, and they are all so good! I do, however, notice that many of you are very interested in more casual, even lounge/athletic pieces when I look at my analytics. Do you all want to see more of that?  

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Sale: The Sephora Sale starts tomorrow for Rouge members, and then everyone can shop starting November 3rd. It's a tiered sale; Rouge members get 20% off. Hot tip: my sister and I share a Sephora account. I'm not a huge Sephora shopper, so it's much easier to get to Rouge status with two people. This is my top pick. It also makes a great gift because with the discount, it's under $20 and you don't need to know anyone's shade. I keep one in my bathroom, one in my makeup bag, and one in my handbag at all times! My second pick would be this, but it's not really the best gift because you need to know the person's exact shade. This is a restock in my cart that I'm purchasing tomorrow once I have access!

Watching:
 I started Gilmore Girls! This is probably the 10th time I've watched it, but it's truly been 10 years since I last watched it. I know because I rewatched it before the reboot came out in 2016. Anyway, I am thoroughly enjoying it. I forgot how quick-witted some of the banter is, and how easy it is to watch. 

I have Phony on my Hulu watchlist. I've heard good things, but the episodes are being released week by week, so I don't think a full season will be out until December. I may wait just so I can watch it all at once. We shall see! 


Emerald// Oval
Emerald and Oval side by side// Oval
Loving: I put together a comparison of my most-worn earrings and the shapes because, although they are listed as 10mm, each shape looks a bit different in size, and many of you ask which is my favorite. I wear the round the most. My mom and sister wear the oval most. I think the oval appears largest in person. I do love the emerald; it just doesn't sparkle as much as the other two. These are all 10mm, gold bezel, CZ stones. Under $100, these will certainly be on my gift guide. 

We finally got the tiles we picked out on our Portugal trip last summer framed! Our hotel had framed tiles all over the place, and I loved the idea, so we went to a cute outdoor flea market while we were on a TukTuk tour and found this set of 4 tiles. I had it set as a float mount on cream linen. It turned out even better than I was hoping. Now we just need to decide where to hang it! The absolute best kind of souvenir. 

Wanting:
Wow, this velvet jacket is spectacular and right under $150! This beaded bag looks designer, and thankfully it does not have a designer price tag! Very into this new Vera Bradley print that is strikingly close to vintage Nantucket navy! These sunglasses are under $50 and have a classic shape to them. Under $50 bow shoes that come in a few pretty colors. Time to pull out the winter slippers; these are my go-to for warm toes! This colorful bracelet is so fun and vibrant. This dress looks too short for me, but wow, if you are looking for a November wedding guest dress and are OK with short, this is so good. There's also a longer, strapless version. This ornament for the tabletop collector is perfection! Fair isle is timeless, and this cardigan is a fall/winter wardrobe staple! This quilted pullover looks so cozy, and the matching pants make it a full lounge set! I've been wearing this puffer vest nonstop lately. My husband has the same on. We twin on occasion on our walks with Henry, ha! I love to top a gift with an ornament, and these are genius because they can fold flat for easy storage, and you just pop them up and attach them to a gift. I also love that they are not breakable. This fringed top, under $100, is the modern-day equivalent to a 'going out top'... here for it!!! A gorgeous cocktail dress under $200. If you are looking for more cocktail options, I have a folder here with lots of great options. I love this dainty citrine bracelet. Citrine is my mom's birthstone, so she has always had quite a few pieces with that stone, and I've always admired them. It's such a pretty stone. This plaid dress is a holiday stunner! This fleece looks beyond cozy. These coasters are SO good and would make a very nice under-$100 gift. Possibly the least glamorous thing ever, flushable wipes just launched from one of my favorite homecare brands. The real selling point here is that they come with a neutral, no-logo canister. And while we are talking non-glamorous things, I'll go one step further and let you know I just replaced all our toilet cleaning brushes because I'm not sure when I last did that. I splurged on these 'nice' ones and have no regrets, ha!! But it's probably a good idea to replace them if you, like me, cannot remember the last time you did. This velevet jacket is back in stock this year. Beware, the price tag is steep, but it is one of those forever pieces.  I've been less than impressed with Tory Burch in the last year or two, but this bag is GOOD and so is this one! I love that they have mostly kept their handbag prices under $1000 and made their logo tiny! These smoking slippers are lovely. Love this simple black bucket bag with no logo to be found! Don't get me wrong, I am not wholly against logos, but some of the TB logos on shoes, bags, etc. were too large in scale! A little sneak peek of Monday's gift guide, this will be on it! Fancy potato chips, no seed oils... consider my interest piqued. Such an elegant wrap sweater. These Christmas tree hand towels are adorable and just $10! 

Pittsburgh: My mom requested we go to Spork Island, the new tiki bar downtown on Penn before her birthday dinner! It is such a fun, kitschy place. I love it. I am going to hibernate there the entire month of January and pretend I'm at a tropical resort. But be forewarned, the drinks are STRONG. When I go, I just drink half of my drink and leave the rest. It's delicious, though! 

Amazon Rec: Ordering these hot rollers because I'm curious. I need to play around with them and see what I think!! 

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