Wednesday, November 4, 2026

Gift Guide: For the Cool Girl


If you’re new here, meet my sister, Callie. She’s four years younger than I am. She is trendier and always ahead of the curve. We’re incredibly close, but our personal tastes tend to be different; though as she gets older, we align more in our tastes. 

Callie is into pop culture, travel, makeup, and cooking. She dresses more casually than I do, somehow always knows the it sneaker of the moment, and always knows what's going on in Hollywood. Her home style is an eclectic mix of mid-century, bohemian, and traditional that she pulls together beautifully. She’s creative, honest, and loyal to her core.

One of my favorite stories about her: when we were little, an older group of neighborhood kids popped my blow-up toy ball just to be mean. Callie, who was maybe four years old, marched over and scolded them on my behalf. She’s been sticking up for me ever since.


Callie and her husband just moved across the country from North Carolina to San Francisco earlier this year. I admire Callie for this move, because it was a big one, and somewhat on a whim. It was such fun to visit her earlier this year, and we are planning another trip to California soon! Callie and her husband are high school sweethearts. They have a dog, Bean, and two cats, Hugo and Louis. She is one of the first people I run things by because she is never afraid to tell it like it is. For this guide, I asked her to send me things she personally loves, recommends, or would gift, so everything here comes straight from her list.

I know not everyone shares my taste, and it can be challenging to shop for people whose style differs from your own. So think of this as the 'cool girl' gift guide. Callie-curated, sister-approved! 

Some items of note... 
- Callie tried these Sunglasses on in Sicily and loved them and eventually ordered them once she got home. 

- This is the Handbag Callie got in Florence, and it is so much better in person. It's the perfect size for day and night, and the ponyhair texture really makes it stand out while still being neutral. 

- My mom, sister, and I all want to put these Earrings on our gift guides because we love them so much and wear them weekly. They're under $100, and I think they are one of the best gifts you could give. There are different shapes and sizes. My mom and sister both prefer the oval 10mm CZ, while I wear the round 10mm CZ more often.

Some items of note... 
- I have seen this Personalized Tote everywhere. It's classic, but the color has a bit of a worn look that I don't love. However, my sister got it to take to Italy, and I got a full tour of it while we were waiting in the airport, and it totally grew on me. It's so spacious and truly set up to be such a great travel bag. The quality is also really great.  

- This Hand Soap is specifically made to erase kitchen smells like onion, garlic, and more. 

- My sister works from home, so she dresses very casually day-to-day and loves this Oversized Sweatshirt.

- To quote the text she sent me about this Keyboard for iPad 'it's one of the best things I own.'

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Tuesday, November 3, 2026

Classic Holiday Decor


Today, we are talking about Christmas decor. With all the holiday content I have been working on, this week feels like Santa's workshop over here! 

I wanted to share some of the holiday decor I put up in our home. There are lots of photos, so it may seem like a lot, but I truly don't do much- just enough to be festive and add warmth and magic. I don't like that overly cluttered feel that can happen with Christmas decor, so I try to reel myself in even when I see cute things. I also don't like spending a fortune on this kind of thing, so I keep it to a minimum because storing it all is a real pain!

My Christmas decor ethos is to buy it once and never replace it. One of the things I love about holidays is tradition. I want to use the same angel on top of the tree, the same tree skirt, the same dinner plates, etc., forever. It creates a continuity over years and decades and, in my opinion, is a part of the charm and warmth of the season. 

I think slowly collecting is fun. I love that I know that I bought our tree skirt when we first moved into our home and were engaged and got our first tree together. In a way, these things mark time. 

I don't need much this year. One thing I don't have is a nativity. I hope to get one at some point, but haven't found exactly what I'm looking for yet. It's one of those 'I'll know it when I see it' kind of things. This is my dream nativity. There is a heavy emphasis on the word 'dream' as that is where it will only ever happen, ha! 

I love this blue and white one, but I feel like this one looks much more like the one my parents have and what we grew up with. My mom actually made her nativity in her 20s in a ceramic class!

I also have my eye on these adorable 3.5' Nutcrackers. 

Our tree skirt is from L.L. Bean, but they no longer make it. I think this tree skirt is a great alternative! 


The monogrammed sash is meant to be a bow for a newborn swaddle, but it's the perfect length and size for a wreath and less costly than many wreath sashes out there. I don't think the Etsy shop carries the exact plaid any longer, but they have some cute options. 


Spode Christmas is one of my favorite things. It signifies the holiday season for me, and I have loved collecting the pieces over the years. If you are starting off, go for some mugs, some dinner plates, and the champagne flutes! 




Our family friends gifted us dinner plates, mugs, and salad plates from the 'Twas collection for our wedding, which is so pretty and whimsical. I think of them each year as I pull out the pieces!





This book is so special. In a primarily digital world, I love this tangible memory book. I give this as a housewarming and wedding gift. It's like a scrapbook with a set of pages per holiday season. You can fill up to 25 years in this one book. I love filling ours in each year. 





You can find me on ShopMy, where I link all of my outfits, favorite finds, home decor, beauty, and more. I’m always updating it with my latest finds! You can also follow me on the LTK app and browse all of my posts here on my website.

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Monday, November 2, 2026

Gift Guide 2026: Host and Hostess

Discover the best host and hostess gifts, from thoughtful little luxuries to elegant entertaining essentials. Perfect for holiday parties, dinners, and more.

Happy first day of gift guides! I’m getting most of this year’s guides up before the Cyber Week deals begin around November 20-ish. A wordier intro to today's gift guide, but in future guides, we will get straight to the point, I promise!! 

Here’s the plan: today kicks off with the Host + Hostess Gift Guide. There will be 11 total gift guides, and I'll have 7 of them live before Cyber Week. I'm bringing back Wednesday posts just for November so I can fit it all in! I’ll still be sharing my usual Thursday Lately and Friday Weekend Wish List posts.
 
I always like to start with the host and hostess gifts. Whether you're attending Thanksgiving, a holiday party, spending a weekend at someone's home, or gathering for a dinner, a thoughtful gift is always a gracious gesture. I also keep a few of these items on hand as they make generous neighbor gifts or small tokens of thanks (for example, when someone helps out with Henry).

I actually have a designated gift shelf where I store things like this, so I’m never scrambling for last-minute presents. It makes the holiday season and the rest of the year feel more organized and stress-free. I learned this tip from my mom and have been doing it my entire adult life. It's saved me many a time! 

I put a lot of thought and care into each guide and am very selective about what I include. These gift guides are one of my favorite things to create all year, and I spend months leading up to today editing and perfecting these lists. I am not just tossing random things on these guides. While there are many great items out there, I keep in mind that these are gifts, and some great items can be a little odd to give, such as a bra, underwear, or foundation, which are best given when you really know someone personally. 

I don’t accept sponsorships for gift guides on my website, so when you shop through my links, it truly means more than you know. If you make a purchase, I may earn a small commission (at no extra cost to you), and your support helps me keep creating these guides each year. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for trusting me with your holiday gifting! 

I'll be sharing my gift guides on my ShopMy page, in case you'd like to refer back to them there. I've also added 'shelves,' which are essentially categorized folders where I save products that I find throughout the week. For example, I recently created a jewelry folder, a cozy lounge folder, a party/cocktail/black tie folder, and more!

I included a lot in today's guide. I personally think of host/hostess gifts under $50, so I included mostly under-$50 items, but I also included a few higher-priced gifts, since I tend to gift something a bit more substantial when I am a house guest versus a dinner party guest. 

Some items of note...

- One of the easiest gifts to grab, and thankfully under $30 (though, depending on what brands you buy), is this Sourdough Bread + French Butter + Jam + Holiday Spreaders Set. Who doesn't love waking up the next day to all of the fixings for a delicious piece of toast?! The butter is some of the best I've ever had. You can find it at Whole Foods. Bonne Maman is my go-to for jams, and my personal favorite is the four fruits. I always snag a loaf of sourdough at Whole Foods, but it's even more special if you bake your own! 

- One of my girlfriends is an incredible baker, and she loves to share her baked goods with so many. These 'from the kitchen' Custom Gift Tags were so fun to give to her a few Christmases ago! 

- The Coffee Table Book is merely a placeholder to inspire. I am a big believer that you can never have too many coffee table books. I was once really stumped on what to get someone I didn't know very well. I knew they loved motorcycles, though, and wouldn't you know it, I found a beautiful Harley-Davidson motorcycle coffee table book! I also love gifting a newlywed couple a coffee table book of their honeymoon, and I write a note inside! 

- The Balsamic Vinegar that's worth every penny and then some. We discovered this in Rome a few years ago and have been loyal fans ever since. When I was in Florence in September, I snagged some, but luckily, you don't have to go to Italy to get it. I am sharing the white label, which is one of their least costly options. For balsamic, this brand is pricey, but it's just soooo much better than anything else. If you want to spend a little more, the red label is incredible (called 3 gold medals), and it is what I typically buy for our house. Though the white label is fantastic, too. I picked up the aged version in Florence, which is very expensive, but in Italy, it's much less, and the aged version is so good, but not something I'd use daily. 
Some items of note...

- I love gummy candy, and as far as candy goes, this Candy Mix Gift Box is a bit of a splurge, but for under $20, you can make someone who loves gummy candy really happy, because this really is the best!

- These Nutcracker Taper Candles are under $20! I've seen them in person, and they are SO cute. If you want to take it a step further, a pair of candlestick holders would be the perfect add-on! 

- We stayed at the Inn at Perry Cabin a few years ago for Valentine's Day, and on every table in their dining room were these fabulous porcelain Votive Holders. It turns out they come in so many beautiful patterns. I included a beautiful lattice design, but they have everything from sailboats to dogs, and more. 

- I love to give the Family Christmas Book as a wedding gift, housewarming gift, or baby shower gift. It's unique and something you might not buy for yourself. The book gives you two pages to write notes about your holiday and then paste in a photo or two. I put in our holiday card, too. We have done this for 7 years in our own book, and looking back is so fun and special. 

- I think this Scented Tassel is such a fun concept to place in a powder bathroom or closet. You could tie it onto a bottle of wine or olive oil, too. I think this Frame Ornament is adorable and another great one to place on a bottle. 

Discover the best host and hostess gifts, from thoughtful little luxuries to elegant entertaining essentials. Perfect for holiday parties, dinners, and more.
Some items of note...

- I love tea and love to try different teas and brands. This Tea Gift Set is from one of my favorite tea brands, Harney and Sons and has so many of my favorites! 

- Back in March, I popped into the cutest little shop in Naples, and there was a dog waste bag holder that was called a 'Barkin'. It looks like a designer bag we know and love. I bought it immediately, and that is what is hanging on Henry's leash. I can't find the exact one that I bought, but this Dog Waste Bag Holder is adorable. It's a cheeky little gift for the dog + fashion lover. 

- I ordered this Sponge, after my sister and cousin have been raving about it. I'm a big Scrub Daddy loyalist, but they both swear up and down that this is the best sponge!! I always think a sponge is a silly little gift, and adding a little tray, like this Blue and White Catchall, makes it giftable. If I host many people and have a lot of cleanup, I usually replace my sponge the next day, so I think it's useful, thoughtful, and, best of all, very inexpensive. You can even do a sponge with a mini bottle of dish soap, wrap it in cellophane, tie it with a big bow and pretty gift tag, and you have yourself an under-$10 gift. Half the time, it's all about presentation! 

- These Martini Olives are the best to ever exist. They are so meaty and firm, and the brine is so salty and flavorful. My girlfriend turned me onto these, and I've never looked back. A very inexpensive little gift to give on its own- this is perfect for someone who loves a martini, and maybe you visit their home often and just want to give them a little something. But add in some cute Cocktail Picks and/or a bottle of vodka or gin, and it's a more substantial gift. 

- My sister and I love these soap bricks; I particularly think this Fig Soap Brick is the best one. I usually don't like bar soap, but this is so luxurious. It doesn't come with anything to lay it on in the shower, and you don't have to have something, but I checked the dimensions of the soap brick, and this little  Lucite Tray should fit the soap perfectly and keep the shower tidier  

- These Tassels  are a fun little thing to dress up a bottle of wine, olive oil, or gift! You can add them to furniture pulls, lamp switches, or even a handbag. 


You can find me on ShopMy, where I link all of my outfits, favorite finds, home decor, beauty, and more. I’m always updating it with my latest finds! You can also follow me on the LTK app and browse all of my posts here on my website.

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Friday, October 30, 2026

Weekend Wish List

Some items of note... 

- This Faux Fur Scarf just climbed its way to the tippy top of my wish list. My code for 20% off is SYD20. It's brilliant. The faux fur portion is hollowed out so you can slip any silk scarf through! It comes with a scarf, but I love that you can swap it out. I love their faux fur- the quality is always top-notch. 

- These Gold Drop Earrings are inexpensive and a great pair to have on hand because they'd work with every holiday outfit and even dress up a simple sweater and jeans. They're under $50! 

- The Sephora sale opens today for Rouge members. This Hair Cream Wand is my #1 recommendation! It tames my flyaways, and you can't tell there is any product in my hair. Plus, it's small enough to stash in most handbags. 

- I am on the hunt for a daytime black bag that is small with a crossbody strap, but that could also be used in the evenings with more casual outfits. I think this Black Bucket Bag is a contender.

-  This Coaster Set and Ornament look like fine Italian china! Either would make such a nice gift. 

Dog Bed (use code SYDNEY10)// Black Dress// Beaded Bag

Some items of note... 

- I did not know that this brand made Dog Beds, but they are so cute and washable! My code is SYDNEY10.

- This Beaded Bag is making me think Valentino, and thankfully the price tag is much better on the wallet. 

- This is such a random find, but a few years ago, my mom and I got the prettiest, dainty rice bead bracelets from a jeweler in Charleston. The jeweler mostly sold silver items, so the rice beads were silver, but the chain was silver coated in gold. It was so pretty and dainty. I still have it, but the gold has worn off, so it's just silver now. I do like silver, but I prefer yellow gold. This summer, when we were in Charleston, I went back to the jewelry shop to ask if they make it or could make it in yellow gold, but they said no. I looked online to find something similar, but I haven't been able to find the right scale or look. Just this week, I stumbled upon this Dainty Gold Bracelet, and it is pretty darn close to exactly what I have been looking for. The only difference is that the beads on my bracelet from Charleston are engraved so that they have some texture, and these don't. I do love the texture, so I'll sit on this for a bit, but I think this is the best I've found! 

- I couldn't fit this cardigan into the WWL collages, so I'm just sharing it here as an add-on because I love it! 

- My husband already loves Sauvage, but this is the new one, 'Elixir ' (it's Men's Cologne, while I love wearing unisex, even men's scents; this one is not something I'd personally wear). It smells so good, and he prefers it over Sauvage. It has a warm, masculine, woody scent. It has many notes and is just overall pleasant but rich. 

- I know many of you ordered the Hollister underwear when I posted about it many times over the years. I was so disappointed that they stopped carrying it, but isn't that how it always goes?! I've ordered so many different pairs from different brands, and I still haven't found an exact duplicate. I do like these; they are as close as can be, but not exact. I want to try these Underwear because they're 40% off right now, making it a reasonable price. 


For your weekend reading, here are blog posts you may have missed from this week:




You can find me on ShopMy, where I link all of my outfits, favorite finds, home decor, beauty, and more. I’m always updating it with my latest finds! You can also follow me on the LTK app and browse all of my posts here on my website.

This content may contain affiliate links; when you click the link and make a purchase, I may receive a commission (at no cost to you).
 

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